Domestic violence does not only affect adults. Children who live in homes where violence occurs are deeply impacted, even if they are not directly targeted or even present when the violence occurs.
Research shows millions of Australians witnessed violence between parents during childhood.
Exposure to domestic violence can affect children’s development, emotional wellbeing, and sense of safety.
Emotional and Behavioural Effects
Children exposed to domestic violence may experience:
- Anxiety or fear
- Aggression or behavioural issues
- Difficulty concentrating at school
- Sleep disturbances
- Regression (e.g., bedwetting)
- Withdrawal or social difficulties
Some children may feel responsible for protecting a parent or trying to prevent violence.
Long-Term Effects
Growing up in an unsafe home environment can increase the risk of:
- Mental health difficulties
- Trauma symptoms
- Relationship difficulties later in life
Children who witness violence may also develop beliefs that unhealthy relationship behaviours are normal.
Providing children with safety, stability, and therapeutic support can help them recover and build resilience.
If you are experiencing domestic violence and would like professional support, trauma counselling can help you process your experiences and rebuild a sense of safety.
Domestic & Family Violence – Intrepid Counselling
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